"Get Over It"

 

Introduction:

            A. So you have some problems.

                        1. Not enough money, not enough education

                        2. Your parents from the blue collar class, or the poor disadvantaged class

                        3. Your parents are too strict, too worldly, too old fashioned, too detached

                        4. Society is so wicked, too unsympathetic toward Christians

            B. What does one do?!

                        1. Cop out and blame others. America’s favorite excuse: “I’m a victim.”

                        2. Withdraw from society in paranoia. Hide out in an Idaho compound.

                        3. Gradually yield to external pressure; surrender over the long term                                 incrementally. Most likely.

                        4. Right answer: in the words of lyricist & singer Don Henley, “Get over it.”

            C. This is the world you live in.

                        1. You do not get to choose the time into which you are born. You often do                      not get to choose the circumstances of your life. And you cannot                                                    change the past.

                        2. In the popular film “Fellowship of the Ring,” Frodo Baggins does not                                        want the responsibility that has been thrust upon him. He says: “I wish                              the ring had never come to me. I wish none of this had happened.” His                                    companion Gandalf replied: “So do all who live to see such times, but                               that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with                                       the time that is given to us.”

            D. Paul had every earthly reason to dwell on the past and to bemoan his current                          circumstances.

                        1. Sacrificed His Reputation - Phil. 3:4-6

                                    a. Paul's Pedigree...

                                    b. "After thee, Benjamin" war cry; named after the greatest warrior                                                in the tribe of Benjamin - Saul.

                                    c. He was at the zenith of Judaism and gave it all up for Christ -                                                     Gal. 1:13-14

                        2. Surrendered His Potential for Riches - 3:7-8

                                    a. He counted it but dung; he really knew how to count! Do we?

                                    b. Rich man dies; what do we ask?

                                    c. "How much did he leave behind?" All of it.

                                    d. $10,000,000.00!  Wow, he must have been a great man!

                                    e. Instead, "He left a big pile of manure, didn't he?"

                                    f. Crude? It’s the Apostle Paul's word for it.

                        3. Suffered Reverses.

                                    1. Chains - Phil. 1:12-14 - "that's terrible, Paul."

                                                a. No, it worked out for the good.

                                                b. Phil. 1:12 - Metal smith pounding on the anvil.

                                                c. Chains caused Paul joy.

                                    2. Critics - 1:15-18

                                                a. If the Gospel is preached, we have cause to rejoice.

                                                b. The power is in the Gospel and not in who or why.

                                    3. Crises - 1:19-24

                                                a. "Because of my crises, Christ is magnified.”

                                                b. The way we handle chains, critics and crises will make                                                               Christ bigger or smaller in the eyes of others.

                        4. Everything we have can be taken from us except Christ, and if all we                                        have left is our relationship with the Lord, then we have what counts.

                                    1. Put a true servant of Christ like Paul in prison, and he teaches                                                  his guards; send false brethren preaching Christ to make life                                                     difficult for him in jail, and he rejoices that Christ is preached. Let                                                   him live, and he preaches Christ; kill him, and he gets to go be                                             with Christ. Satan and circumstances can’t win against a true                                               servant of the Lord with this attitude!

            E. How can we do this?!

                        1. We were made in the image of God. To suggest that an eternal soul                                        and the ability to reason are all that compose that image is a limited and                         shallow interpretation.

                        2. We have been created to have dominion over the earth. We have                                power over our environment. While we may not be able to change the                              circumstances of our place in this world, we have the power, will, and                                  mind to win in spite of it.

                        3. Rather than being controlled by circumstances, we take control of how                                    we will deal with them. Instead of being slaves to our condition, we can                                        choose to be masters of our destiny.

                        4. No beast can do that. You are in the image of God, different from the                                       animals, given the power to choose, rather than simply being swept                                 along by circumstances.

            F. What will you do with your time and circumstances?

                        1. I choose to make opportunities in the midst of adversity.

                        2. Or, I choose to allow hardship to blind me to opportunities.

                        3. I choose to think of what is good and right in my life and draw strength                                     from them.

                        4. Or, I choose to dwell on the circumstances of my life that I cannot                                  change and become morbid, despairing, and paranoid.

            G. Why are the young excused from being responsible?

                        1. Indulgent parents - "They’re too young; they have a hard time adjusting"

                        2. Tolerant Brethren - "They’re too young; they’re in difficult                                                            circumstances."

                        3. Parents and teachers insult the ability of children when they make                                excuses for young people. They teach them that an excuse is an                                          acceptable substitute for striving toward success.

                        4. You want someone to be part of an organization, to get involved, to be                                    responsible? Give them responsibility and trust them to fulfill it. Don’t                               hover over them and micromanage. God doesn’t hound your steps. He                                        gave you commands and expects you to keep them. Accountability                                 breeds maturity.

                                    a. Why are so many young people attracted to cults?

                                    b. Ready to sacrifice, be challenged, be responsible.

                                    c. We aren't losing our children to the world because we are asking                                             too much, but because we ask too little!

                                    d. Blytheville Bible class commentaries; 8-11 year old kids.

                                    e. Jaime Escalante taught LA Barrio District students, who couldn’t                                              do basic math, to do AP calculus. When challenged about asking                                 too much of them, he replied, “Students will rise to your level of                                                   expectation.”

                        5. Climb over the barriers life raises against you. Get over it!

                                    a. Bad environment at home.

                                    b. No breaks in life.

                                    c. No experience with life.

                                    d. Nervous disposition.

                                    e. Lack of supervision.

                        f. Excessive peer pressure.

                        6. In your heart, you know these excuses will not prevent you from                                                 excelling. Know that they will not satisfy the Lord, either.

                        7. Illustration: Last batter in the game. Winning run is at third and all you                                       need is a base hit. You strike out. Who do you blame?

 

I. SAMUEL - BAD ENVIRONMENT AT HOME.

            A. Eli's sons were wicked beyond the scope of soap operas, and Eli let it go on                        unchecked - 1Sam. 2:22-24, 27-29.

                        1. What a poor example for little Samuel growing up in Eli's house!

                        2. Many are disillusioned by hypocritical parents.

                                    a. Critical of the brethren, slack in service, different morals at home.

            B. But Samuel rose above the corrupting influence at home and became one of                         the Lord's most dedicated prophets.

                        1. 1Sam. 2:26, 3:19

 

II. DAVID - DIDN'T GET ANY BREAKS.

            A. 1Sam. 16:10-11

                        1. Causes many to rebel and make their own breaks sinfully.

                        2. "You sent brother to college." "Sis always was your favorite."

                        3. If you bathe in self-pity, you come out smelling worse than when you                                         got in. Do something constructive.

            B. David stuck with it and made his own breaks by starting with pleasing God.

                        1. 1Sam. 17:32-33, 36-37, 42-46

 

III. JOSIAH - WITH NO EXPERIENCE.

            A. Some believe a lack of experience is the same as being handicapped.

                        1. Josiah didn't need experience to know and practice the will of the Lord.

                                    a. 2Kings 22:1-2

                                    b. Rebuilt house of the Lord; re-established worship 23:22-23.

                                    c. Destroyed the places of idolatry.

                                    d. Swore an oath of faithfulness - 23:3.

                        2. I'm sure there were some who said, "That impulsive, inexperienced kid;                                  he doesn't know what he is doing."

                        3. Sometimes age blinds us to the truth - Job 32:1-9.

            B. Respect age and wisdom, treasures uncountable; but not to the point that it                           takes precedence over the word of God.

                        1. Experience is not a prerequisite to obeying God.

 

IV. JOSEPH - A LONG WAY FROM HOME.

            A. Genesis 39 - "Potiphar was away, Mrs. Potiphar wanted to play."

                        1. "As long as no one sees me it shouldn't matter."

                        2. Two will always know -- you and God.

                        3. Secrets don't always stay secret:

                                    a. Numbers 32:23 -"Be assured, your sin will find you out."

                                    b. Psalm 140:11 - "Evil shall hunt the violent man to overthrow him"

                                    c. Isaiah 59:12 - "For our transgressions are multiplied before you,                                               and our sins testify against us, our transgressions are ever with                                                us, and as for our iniquities, we know them."

            B. Gen. 39:8-9

       

V. TIMOTHY - HAD A NERVOUS DISPOSITION.

            A. 1Cor. 16:10-11; 1Tim. 5:23 - plus Paul's admonitions to him not to neglect the                        preaching, have courage, etc. Timothy must have had a nervous disposition.

                        1. Timothy was not excused from serving the Lord.

                        2. Acts 17:14 - Paul left him at Berea to preach.

                        3. 1Tim. 3 - Paul commissioned him to see to the ordaining of elders.

 

VI. THREE HEBREW BOYS - UNDER TREMENDOUS PEER PRESSURE.

            A. Daniel 3 - worshipping Nebuchadnezzar's statue.

                        1. "Aw come on, everybody's doing it."  MOST aren't.

                        2. If they are, so what?  Majority killed Christ.

                        3. Dad used to say, "If everyone jumped off the East Liverpool Bridge..."

            B. Majority is going to hell - Matt. 7:13-14. - That includes your classmates.

                        1. Dare to be different and dedicated to Christ. Daniel 3:13-18.

 

Conclusion:

            A. These people are heroes; they had four things in common:

                        1. They were young,

                        2. They took responsibility for themselves,

                        3. They had courage.

                        4. They got over the limiting circumstances of their lives.

            B. 1Tim. 4:12

           1. Have the courage to obey the Gospel and live for the Lord.

                        2. Musias